Author: the loving lightworker

Manifest Monday- 7.23.18

I am doing a thing. In an effort to increase of awareness of the bountiful , limitless energy of the universe that is available to EVERYONE, I would like to share quotes, stories and insights every Monday, in hopes that in motivates and inspires you all to embrace the magic and endless possibilities that is, universal energy and law of attraction. Today’s Manifest Monday is brought to you by Gabby Bernstein.  She says… “Obstacles are detours in the right direction” How often do we view a set back, an obstacle, a refusal, as something not going your way. How often do we experience these situations and think that said end goal “was never meant to be” or was just “too hard to attain”. Do we ever stop, think to ourselves and accept that these barriers and obstacles were MEANT to happen? We all must trust that the universe is always on our side.  Its always guiding us to the path that was destined for us. These obstacles were not put in our place because we …

Trade pain for peace

Forgiveness can be a hard pill to swallow. Regardless of any wrong doing and actions that have caused us nothing but pain and trauma, do you really think holding on to that energy is going to benefit you and allow you to move on peacefully? It’s time to use that big ‘ol F word…forgiveness. Not necessarily forgiving the person or the action, not unless it feels right for you, of course. We are being called to seek forgiveness for the benefit and well being of your heart and mind. You get to create a conduit of love and light to fill your heart, mind and soul.  You replace toxic, unfavorable, angry, sad and betrayed energy for love, peace and light. Release the pain that no longer serves you, and you choose to replace it with love, light and forgiveness. Trade pain for peace. Change the vibration of your energy and watch a beautiful manifest life unfold from here on out.

deep energy healing, with a side of LOA

When it comes to ultimate manifestation and living your true purpose in life, I believe that deep energy healing and universal energy (like law of attraction) go hand in hand. If you are not connected to your truth and purpose, and your life is not going exactly to plan, its possible you are missing at least one, or maybe both of these magical modalities for living an epic life. Deep energy healing (think kundalini, past life regressions, reiki, releasing emotional trauma, etc) helps move and remove the energy of those stories that have been stuck in any of the layers of your Aura. This is essential, if you cannot seem to get past a barrier in life. For example, I’ve been wanting to be an entrepreneur for a while.  I’ve done so many side jobs but never felt passionate about them, and I wouldn’t succeed very long after I started.  I would blame it on the lack of connection to my purpose and passion in life.  I finally received some beautiful business coaching that allowed me …

Stop Playing Small

You are playing small, and this is your permission to stop that shit! Since the day you were born, you have been destined for a life of growth, learning, fun and love. This life is meant to be enjoyed and fulfilled as you see fit. You were born for greatness. So stop playing small because you are bigger than what you think you are. Stop wasting time making decisions that do not serve your greater good and that make you feel weak or unworthy. Decisions that kill your confidence and self esteem. We keep ourselves small because we are fearful. We are fearful of old patterns and stories , and the ego holds on to those stories to keep us small and safe. When we stay small, we live our lives with very little connection to our purpose and intuition. We live our days not honoring our true path and destiny in life.  We do not honor our life purpose and we rob ourselves of a lot of experiences that serve our greater good. So let’s …

{Identity} The story of validation

Certifications, job promotions and titles. I have achieved these over and over again. All the while, never really asking myself if it was what I really wanted. It felt good to achieve these goals and feel successful, but what I have soon realized was that it was never out of passion.  I just knew it was good to achieve them . It looked good to achieve them. It made me feel validated. I never realized it then, but validation was something I craved.  I needed it to feel like I mattered. It was my way of proving to those around me that I was here.  I was valuable. I was present. I had purpose. I am worthy.  I matter. Once I realized this pattern, I knew it was important to figure out when it started and how it even came about.  I could trace this need for validation as far back as I can remember. In our traditional Hispanic culture, the voices, ideas and thoughts of children are merely celebrated.  This is most evident if …

manifesting as an introvert

Being an introvert does not mean you have to play small. You don’t have to be loud or aggressive to get what you want in life. You just need to be true to you. There was a time when I didn’t think that was true.   I would see people come into a room and simply dominate it.  People would hang on their word, give them positive attention and appreciate their presence.  I used to think that by coming in strong and loud, that could warrant the attention and respect.  Funny how it never worked out for me that way when I gave it a whirl here and there (to make matters worse, I am an introvert through and through).  Forcing myself to appear big, loud and obvious made me feel phony and disconnected.  I hated every minute of being in an environment where I felt I had to try to be someone that I knew I wasn’t. What I didn’t realize then was that those people didn’t attract attention by the decibel in which they …

Being Your Own Guru {identity}

The more I keep hearing “Be your own guru”, the more it continues to resonate with me. Hard. Who better knows what is best for you than….you?! Sounds like a no brainer, right? However, if you are or were anything like I was for the past two decades, you might feel as though this concept was unreachable.  Foreign, even. I had very little connection to my true identity and purpose. All I knew was that I had very little self confidence, and seeking approval and validation from others made me feel better. I based my life decisions and behaviors based on that. A total people pleaser, which is really just a nice way to say “a total pushover”. Man I used to get so mad when people would call me a pushover, but that is what I was because I didn’t know anything else. So how could I have possibly become my own guru if I didn’t even know who the heck I was?! It has taken A LOT of deep healing, soul searching and digging …