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Stop Playing Small

You are playing small, and this is your permission to stop that shit! Since the day you were born, you have been destined for a life of growth, learning, fun and love. This life is meant to be enjoyed and fulfilled as you see fit. You were born for greatness. So stop playing small because you are bigger than what you think you are. Stop wasting time making decisions that do not serve your greater good and that make you feel weak or unworthy. Decisions that kill your confidence and self esteem. We keep ourselves small because we are fearful. We are fearful of old patterns and stories , and the ego holds on to those stories to keep us small and safe. When we stay small, we live our lives with very little connection to our purpose and intuition. We live our days not honoring our true path and destiny in life.  We do not honor our life purpose and we rob ourselves of a lot of experiences that serve our greater good. So let’s …

manifesting as an introvert

Being an introvert does not mean you have to play small. You don’t have to be loud or aggressive to get what you want in life. You just need to be true to you. There was a time when I didn’t think that was true.   I would see people come into a room and simply dominate it.  People would hang on their word, give them positive attention and appreciate their presence.  I used to think that by coming in strong and loud, that could warrant the attention and respect.  Funny how it never worked out for me that way when I gave it a whirl here and there (to make matters worse, I am an introvert through and through).  Forcing myself to appear big, loud and obvious made me feel phony and disconnected.  I hated every minute of being in an environment where I felt I had to try to be someone that I knew I wasn’t. What I didn’t realize then was that those people didn’t attract attention by the decibel in which they …

Being Your Own Guru {identity}

The more I keep hearing “Be your own guru”, the more it continues to resonate with me. Hard. Who better knows what is best for you than….you?! Sounds like a no brainer, right? However, if you are or were anything like I was for the past two decades, you might feel as though this concept was unreachable.  Foreign, even. I had very little connection to my true identity and purpose. All I knew was that I had very little self confidence, and seeking approval and validation from others made me feel better. I based my life decisions and behaviors based on that. A total people pleaser, which is really just a nice way to say “a total pushover”. Man I used to get so mad when people would call me a pushover, but that is what I was because I didn’t know anything else. So how could I have possibly become my own guru if I didn’t even know who the heck I was?! It has taken A LOT of deep healing, soul searching and digging …

{true identity} our stories

  Grab your journal and a pen, girl….its time to get deep and ask yourself the following questions: What stories are holding you back? Who are the people that made you feel less than and told you that you aren’t enough? Who made you feel small and insignificant and didn’t honor you in all of your beauty and glory ? What are those memories that keep you small, ashamed and insignificant? More importantly,  why do you allow them to determine your worth? How you treat yourself? What you are truly able to manifest? Why do you let yourself become identified by these past events? Why are you a prisoner to past memories that no longer serve you? I want you to find comfort that what is in the past is just that…the past! It does not identify you- it does not determine your worth. What you do right now- is a testament of your true self. You have the present and the future to make your life what you want it to be- to break …