All posts tagged: purpose

Manifest Monday 8.27.18

When life starts to test our limits, remember this: “I am a spirit having a human experience and I’m here to get closer to love”- Gabby Bernstein   Because at the end of the day, that is our true soul’s purpose in life-  to find, live and breathe unconditional love. Everything else that handed to us in this human experience, is meant to help us grow, evolve, and ascend into unconditional love. When we decide to leave our human body and this plane of exsistance, it will not matter what car we had, what kind of house we lived in, what trips we made, etc… What will matter most is if we were ever able to acheive any of those things ( or never have them at all) while having unconditional love in our hearts. That is the biggest test in our lifetime here on earth.  That will be our greatest achievement. Let that sink in… (and then share your thoughts below!)

stop hating on millennials already

I used to nark on millennials- something I am not proud of, but I have had a change of heart recently.  Their lingo and music still makes me want to jab a q-tip in my ears, but that’s as far as I will let my adversity towards them go.  This generation is our future, and will pave the path of the future for the generation after that. These beautiful souls are living in the age where we are being called to question everything! They are becoming awakened to the energy that surrounds them, and they know deep in their gut, that shit is just not happening as it should be. They are starting to ask questions.  Discover different methods, explore various options… They help us see the gray matter in things that we have known for so long to be “black and white”. You want to make fun of them for switching jobs on the regular? I don’t blame them! They are embracing their true self and purpose and are realizing that their triangle personality …

step up your manifestation game this weekend with these 3 easy steps

When thinking of universal energy, I always start with these two thoughts: Like attracts like. Energy is in everything and everywhere. Are we taking full advantage of this energy and magic that is available to us all day, every day? This vibrant force that is on our side to help us heal, connect, ascend and manifest all we desire?? I feel safe saying that most of us don’t. The good news is, it can stop today! This weekend, do these 3 things to help step up your manifestation game using the relentless force and energy of the universe:   Be crystal clear. No wishy-washy nonsense when you are asking for what you want. Now is not the time to be shy or humble. State exactly what you want, how you want it and when you would like to have it. Example: I don’t just want a car.  I want a freshly painted light blue, 1969 Volkswagen mini bus, for my price range of $12,000 and I want it in time for my Fall road trip across …

Manifest Monday 8.6.18

“I am a spirit having a human experience and I’m here to get closer to love” – The Universe Has Your Back This is deep! I’m rolling with it, here we go… A few months ago, I was guided to read about the Ascended Masters.  I was hesitant at first, because death has always been an uncomfortable subject for me.  However, after reading a book about Ascended Masters, it gave me more clarity about ourselves as humans and as souls. What I have come to learn and believe is that we are all infinite souls.  Souls made up of star dust and unconditional love and light. We choose to have experiences as humans to help us learn, grow and ascend. If we are lucky, we can become connected to this message and lesson very early on in life…but I guess that would be too easy, haha! Without tests, hurdles and barriers, we wouldn’t be able to see where we need to grow and learn, so as souls, we can ascend into high planes of the …

Stop Playing Small

You are playing small, and this is your permission to stop that shit! Since the day you were born, you have been destined for a life of growth, learning, fun and love. This life is meant to be enjoyed and fulfilled as you see fit. You were born for greatness. So stop playing small because you are bigger than what you think you are. Stop wasting time making decisions that do not serve your greater good and that make you feel weak or unworthy. Decisions that kill your confidence and self esteem. We keep ourselves small because we are fearful. We are fearful of old patterns and stories , and the ego holds on to those stories to keep us small and safe. When we stay small, we live our lives with very little connection to our purpose and intuition. We live our days not honoring our true path and destiny in life.  We do not honor our life purpose and we rob ourselves of a lot of experiences that serve our greater good. So let’s …

{Identity} The story of validation

Certifications, job promotions and titles. I have achieved these over and over again. All the while, never really asking myself if it was what I really wanted. It felt good to achieve these goals and feel successful, but what I have soon realized was that it was never out of passion.  I just knew it was good to achieve them . It looked good to achieve them. It made me feel validated. I never realized it then, but validation was something I craved.  I needed it to feel like I mattered. It was my way of proving to those around me that I was here.  I was valuable. I was present. I had purpose. I am worthy.  I matter. Once I realized this pattern, I knew it was important to figure out when it started and how it even came about.  I could trace this need for validation as far back as I can remember. In our traditional Hispanic culture, the voices, ideas and thoughts of children are merely celebrated.  This is most evident if …

Being Your Own Guru {identity}

The more I keep hearing “Be your own guru”, the more it continues to resonate with me. Hard. Who better knows what is best for you than….you?! Sounds like a no brainer, right? However, if you are or were anything like I was for the past two decades, you might feel as though this concept was unreachable.  Foreign, even. I had very little connection to my true identity and purpose. All I knew was that I had very little self confidence, and seeking approval and validation from others made me feel better. I based my life decisions and behaviors based on that. A total people pleaser, which is really just a nice way to say “a total pushover”. Man I used to get so mad when people would call me a pushover, but that is what I was because I didn’t know anything else. So how could I have possibly become my own guru if I didn’t even know who the heck I was?! It has taken A LOT of deep healing, soul searching and digging …

{identity} living my best (authentic) life

Real talk. I have been a bit quiet with my writing and for once its not because I am afraid to share my voice. I have started my deep energy healing full throttle since January, and it is STILL going strong. As I continue to journal, meditate and grow, it feels as though I am peeling off a new layer of my true, authentic self.  A part of me I never knew existed.  It’s like I am meeting this new part of me for the first time, and learning that we are going to be life long friends.  I want to get to know this new part of me.  Be kind. Smile.  Ask questions.  I want to get to know her reaction to certain situations.  I am learning how she grounds herself when shit gets stressful. I am loving every moment of watching her walk tall, proud and confident. It brings me the most immense pride seeing her act upon her intuition and gut instinct, instead of what she thought was the “right thing to …

{journaling} Facilitating your own healing

I always used to be obsessed with journals. I guess it was the universe’s way to tell me to start writing down my thoughts and feelings on paper so I can facilitate my own healing. However, I would never write in them.  I would probably fill out a page, at most, but then leave it at that.  I couldn’t even re-gift it if I wanted to because I had already used one sad, lonely page.  Yet the collection of journals continue to grow.  For the past three months I have been undergoing some deep energy healing and it was benefited me tremendously, but nonetheless it’s still scary and doesn’t feel good, and I can’t help but wonder if that’s why I never wrote in all of those journals I have collected over the years. I think I just never really wanted to come face to face with my wounds and hurt from the past. Alas, I’m a little more than halfway through my first REAL journal (read: committed to writing more than just one page) …

{true identity} our stories

  Grab your journal and a pen, girl….its time to get deep and ask yourself the following questions: What stories are holding you back? Who are the people that made you feel less than and told you that you aren’t enough? Who made you feel small and insignificant and didn’t honor you in all of your beauty and glory ? What are those memories that keep you small, ashamed and insignificant? More importantly,  why do you allow them to determine your worth? How you treat yourself? What you are truly able to manifest? Why do you let yourself become identified by these past events? Why are you a prisoner to past memories that no longer serve you? I want you to find comfort that what is in the past is just that…the past! It does not identify you- it does not determine your worth. What you do right now- is a testament of your true self. You have the present and the future to make your life what you want it to be- to break …